Single person adoption
At Adopt London, we welcome single adopters and believe that the desire to nurture a child is not limited to couples. Solo parenting is not unusual in the UK, and we’ve supported many individual men and women on their journey to adopt. If you are thinking about adopting on your own, you’re not alone. Come and talk to us.
What is single parent adoption?
Single-parent adoption, also known as solo adoption, is any circumstance where an individual adopts on their own and not as part of a couple. Single adoption can significantly benefit many children as it offers the opportunity for a special, one-to-one relationship that may help the child settle quicker and thrive in their new environment. For this reason, single adoption is sometimes even preferred for some children.
The adoption process is no different for a solo adopter. You will go through exactly the same assessment process and be offered the same amount of support throughout. No matter your gender or sexual orientation, the focus of your eligibility will always be on the skills and strengths you bring, and your ability to provide a stable and loving environment for a child.
Single adoption considerations
Whilst adoption can be a wonderful route to parenting, there are a few things to consider as a single-parent adopter.
Info packSupport network
- All parents need support, but as a single adopter, having a strong network is especially vital. Trusted family and friends who embrace your decision to parent solo and are willing to be actively involved in supporting your family unit can make a world of difference in your adoption journey.
Employment
- Most single parents need to work, so successfully balance work and parenting. Like any parent, you’ll need some time off when your child first comes to live with you, and it’s important to think ahead about things like school holidays or unexpected time off. Having a supportive employer and flexible working arrangements can make a big difference.Some solo adopters find that adopting a school-age child works well with their lifestyle, making it easier to manage work and parenting. But ultimately, every journey looks different – and being a single adopter doesn’t mean doing it all alone. With the right support network, it’s absolutely possible to balance work and the demands of parenting.
Finances
- Financial security is an important factor when it comes to adopting, and even more so with single-parent adoption. Some financial support may be available, depending on your circumstances, but ensure that you carefully consider how you will support yourself and a child financially when you adopt, in particular during the settling-in period.
Are you ready to start your single person adoption journey?
We’re here to support. To find out if adoption is right for you and the next steps, join us for one of our adoption events.
Single parent adoption FAQs
Is it harder to be accepted for adoption as a single adopter? +
No, we welcome single adopters, and a significant percentage of children are adopted by single parents. What is more important is your ability to support a child’s needs as they grow to become independent.
Are men able to adopt on their own? +
Yes, men are able to adopt on their own as solo adopters. Gender is not a factor within the eligibility criteria, and adopters of all genders are welcome.
I’m LGBTQ+ can I adopt on my own? +
Yes, many single adopters are LGBTQ+. Adopters of all sexual orientations and gender identities are welcome. Find out more about LGBTQ+ adoption.
What kind of support is available post-adoption for single adopters? +
At Adopt London, we offer ongoing post-adoption support for all adopters. We can connect you with other solo adopters and to a network of single adopters for peer-to-peer support and activities across London. Plus, you will have access to ongoing post-adoption support services that may include:
- Advice and guidance
- A full assessment of your family’s needs
- Support to access funding through the adoption and special guardianship support fund
- Stay and play groups
- Adopter support groups
- Links to other services
- Individual support for adoptive families
- Support with contact arrangements
Will I be better suited to a certain age as a single adopter? +
Some single adopters feel particularly well suited to adopting school-age or older children, as their routines can be more compatible with work and childcare commitments. This is, however, an individual choice and depends on your financial security, your support network and your personal circumstances.
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